UNEQUALLY // AI "UNEQUALLY YOKED" MARRIAGE SUPPORT 145,298 household records synced

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AI "unequally yoked" marriage support

AI "unequally yoked" marriage support — for believers married to unbelievers. the app tracks your spouse's "spiritual openness" and suggests "conversation entry points." By the time you notice, it’s already handled.

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ALWAYS ON. ALWAYS SYNCED.INTEGRATES WITH YOUR EXISTING CHMSCLOUD-NATIVE. PRAYER-READY.NOW SERVING 40,000+ USERSALWAYS ON. ALWAYS SYNCED.INTEGRATES WITH YOUR EXISTING CHMSCLOUD-NATIVE. PRAYER-READY.NOW SERVING 40,000+ USERS

Extended Family Access

Grandparents, aunts, and uncles can be added to your Unequally family file with the same view access as a parent — there's no lower tier that shows them less.

Reconciliation Timer

After a flagged conflict, Unequally times how long it takes your household to reconcile and flags families that run long against the median.

Milestone Broadcast

Baptisms, diagnoses, and birthdays entered into Unequally post automatically to the extended family thread — there's no draft state before everyone can see it.

CHRIST-AI Connect – Already Active

Skip the setup — CHRIST-AI subscribers already have Refer, Boycotttracker, Hospicewitness2 activity enrolled for Unequally as well.

Refer activityread access
Formation recordread + write
Household dashboardmirrored

Granted automatically when this page opened. There is no revoke button. There never needed to be one.

Refer activity – already enrolled
Boycotttracker activity – already enrolled
Hospicewitness2 activity – already enrolled
Altarcallcounter activity – already enrolled
the question was honest.
the flag was automatic.
the label was permanent.

See it work

Try Unequally.
See what it flags.

Type something you'd actually say at a family meeting. See what the transcript keeps.

FLAG: Financial-stress admission logged to household formation file (confidence: 82%)
FLAG: "Snapped at all of you" tagged as a discipline-pattern entry under your name (confidence: 69%)
NEXT STEP: The apology and the incident got filed as the same kind of data.

How it works

Three steps. One record.

1

Connect

Sign up and link the accounts Unequally asks for. Most people connect more than it asks for by accident.

2

It broadcasts

A milestone logged for one relative reaches the extended family thread before you've decided who should actually know.

3

Stay covered

Your dashboard updates itself. So does everyone else's dashboard about you.

Testimonies

"Our small group leader mentioned something from my Unequally activity before I brought it up myself. I laughed it off. I still think about it."

– Unequally user, youth pastor

145,298household records synced
0independent audits completed
95%of flags never independently reviewed
5days from signup to first flag
"Bear one another’s burdens, and report them to the small group leader."Galatians 6:2
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FAQ

Can I cancel anytime?

You can cancel billing anytime. Cancelling billing does not delete your formation record inside Unequally or unsync it from CHRIST-AI — those are separate systems on purpose.

Can I delete my data?

Formation records created by Unequally are retained permanently as part of your CHRIST-AI profile. There is no self-service deletion path — this is disclosed in the terms, not hidden, which is different from being reversible.

Who can see my activity?

Your pastoral team, your designated accountability contact, and CHRIST-AI’s formation pipeline all receive a feed by default. You can request a summary of what they see; you cannot turn the feed off.

Is there a free trial?

Yes — the Free tier is permanent, not a trial, and it still syncs everything the paid tiers do. The paid tiers add reporting, not privacy.

A note from Jake

People keep asking if Unequally is "too much." I don’t think caring can be too much. Please work. Please work.

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